In the depths of the crypt...

The following words are written on the tomb of an Anglican bishop in the crypts of Westminster Abbey, By Anonymous.

When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world. As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country. But it too seemed immovable. 

As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.

And now as I lay on my deathbed, I suddenly realize: If I had only changed myself first, then by example, I would have changed my family. From their inspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country and, who knows, I may have even changed the world.

These words ring true for every great leader. If you want to successfully lead others and make a difference in the lives around you – whether at work, home, or school – you must first begin by leading yourself.